Not fair if only your spouse are able to reach orgasm. It would be better if you and your partner can reach orgasm together. Because orgasms do not just give a sense of satisfaction when having sex, but also helps improve healthy relationship. You and he will feel more loved, cared for, and happy.
"Reaching climax with a gap of a few seconds between you and your partner are the most satisfying sexual moments for both of you," says Ian Kerner, PhD, sex expert who is also the author of He Comes Next. "Every sensation will be stronger because you experience it together."
1. Adjust fuck rhythm
The biggest problem that causes you no partner is not able to achieve orgasm is the same sex that is not consistent rhythm. You often run too fast, while he's running slow (or vice versa). This will make your movement is not balanced. Therefore, keep a balance between rhythm and timing your movements during lovemaking.
In women, orgasm often can not be obtained in a short time. If you see your partner almost ejaculate, try to slow down the moment. Often recommended way is to press the tip of his penis for about five seconds. "The movement will squeeze his penis to stop the blood flow, thus easing his passion," said Kerner.
After that you can both start again, trying to equate your rhythm.
2. Touch switch to another area
Do not immediately rush like running "tasks" you as a couple, or pamper themselves with a direct touch to the penis. Therefore, this will make it quicker climax. Instead, you touch switch to another area of the body that are not less sensitive. For example, chest, back, arms, or thighs it. On the other hand, also pamper yourself by asking him to be more active to touch you through foreplay. Many young couples tend to forget the function of foreplay, because it was already lust for the "main menu". In fact, foreplay can not only increase your sex drive but also make you enjoy an orgasm to the fullest.
3. Begin first
Men tend to reach climax more quickly, while most women need 10-20 minutes to reach the top through intercourse. Therefore, ask that stimulate your partner first. Do it for 10 minutes or according to your convenience until you approach the summit. Once you are ready to perform intercourse, do woman on top position so that you can control the speed of movement. Ava Cadell, PhD, author of The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex, advise you to touch the clitoris with a circular motion to stimulate blood flow in that direction.
4. Done through oral stimulation
Dispel the notion that the perfect orgasm should always be achieved through sexual penetration. In women, orgasm can be achieved through a variety of ways. "It may be easier to reach the top through manual and oral touch, because it focuses on your clitoris," says Cadell. In many positions, he says women may not be achieving clitoral stimulation unless you unknowingly create contact between the body of her with your clitoris.
To achieve orgasm through intercourse, re-create the sensation that you feel through the manual and oral stimulation. Use lubrication to mimic the sensation of the warm and moist lips. After that, let the pair go slowly, with the same speed with the rhythm while oral stimulation. Well, so going deeper penetration, stimulation also your self from the outside. Take your hands touch the him to give up on your sensitive area.
"Reaching climax with a gap of a few seconds between you and your partner are the most satisfying sexual moments for both of you," says Ian Kerner, PhD, sex expert who is also the author of He Comes Next. "Every sensation will be stronger because you experience it together."
1. Adjust fuck rhythm
The biggest problem that causes you no partner is not able to achieve orgasm is the same sex that is not consistent rhythm. You often run too fast, while he's running slow (or vice versa). This will make your movement is not balanced. Therefore, keep a balance between rhythm and timing your movements during lovemaking.
In women, orgasm often can not be obtained in a short time. If you see your partner almost ejaculate, try to slow down the moment. Often recommended way is to press the tip of his penis for about five seconds. "The movement will squeeze his penis to stop the blood flow, thus easing his passion," said Kerner.
After that you can both start again, trying to equate your rhythm.
2. Touch switch to another area
Do not immediately rush like running "tasks" you as a couple, or pamper themselves with a direct touch to the penis. Therefore, this will make it quicker climax. Instead, you touch switch to another area of the body that are not less sensitive. For example, chest, back, arms, or thighs it. On the other hand, also pamper yourself by asking him to be more active to touch you through foreplay. Many young couples tend to forget the function of foreplay, because it was already lust for the "main menu". In fact, foreplay can not only increase your sex drive but also make you enjoy an orgasm to the fullest.
3. Begin first
Men tend to reach climax more quickly, while most women need 10-20 minutes to reach the top through intercourse. Therefore, ask that stimulate your partner first. Do it for 10 minutes or according to your convenience until you approach the summit. Once you are ready to perform intercourse, do woman on top position so that you can control the speed of movement. Ava Cadell, PhD, author of The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex, advise you to touch the clitoris with a circular motion to stimulate blood flow in that direction.
4. Done through oral stimulation
Dispel the notion that the perfect orgasm should always be achieved through sexual penetration. In women, orgasm can be achieved through a variety of ways. "It may be easier to reach the top through manual and oral touch, because it focuses on your clitoris," says Cadell. In many positions, he says women may not be achieving clitoral stimulation unless you unknowingly create contact between the body of her with your clitoris.
To achieve orgasm through intercourse, re-create the sensation that you feel through the manual and oral stimulation. Use lubrication to mimic the sensation of the warm and moist lips. After that, let the pair go slowly, with the same speed with the rhythm while oral stimulation. Well, so going deeper penetration, stimulation also your self from the outside. Take your hands touch the him to give up on your sensitive area.
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